Our members have found ways out of the pain and confusion caused by sex and love addiction by participating in the S.L.A.A. Twelve-Step program modeled after Alcoholics Anonymous.  There is a solution – you are not alone!

What is Sex and Love Addiction?

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We in S.L.A.A. believe that sex and love addiction is a progressive illness which cannot be cured but can be arrested. It can take many forms, including a compulsive need for sex;  an extreme dependency or obsession with another person (or many); sexual or romantic activity outside the scope of a monogamous relationship; obsessive fantasy, whether sexual or romantic; a compulsive attraction to unavailable or abusive partners; compulsively engaging in anonymous or casual sex; or a compulsive avoidance of physical intimacy, social contact or emotional attachment.  When an obsessive/ compulsive pattern exists, it can become increasingly destructive to career, family, and one’s sense of self-esteem and self-respect. Sex and love addiction, if left unchecked, always gets worse.​

“Characteristics of Sex and Love Addiction”

Sex and Love Addicts Anonymous, or S.L.A.A.

S.L.A.A. is open to anyone who believes they have a problem with sex addiction, love addiction, romantic obsession, codependent relationships, fantasy addiction and/or sexual, social, and emotional “anorexia”.  We use the Twelve Steps and Twelve Traditions adapted from Alcoholics Anonymous to recover from these compulsions and break free. By following a simple program that has proven successful for scores of other men and women with the same illness, we can recover.  We reconstruct our lives physically, mentally, emotionally, and spiritually.